Friday, September 28th, 2007...5:53 am
I’ve been avoiding posting
It might sound kind of stupid, but I wanted to leave my post about Ray as sort of a tribute and not distract from it by posting about anything else for a while. Reading back on that post, I can see that it was too self-centered. The only attempt at an excuse that I can offer was that I really was completely knocked for a loop by what happened and was trying to make sense of it for myself. Although, I’m not sure why I chose to do that in public.
This is what I should have said:
Ray was great. She was funny, and she loved to laugh. I saw her go through every emotion over the years and through some really tough times, but she was always a joy to be around, and she was an amazing singer.
Whenever I needed a singer for some project, she was at the top of my list. Not just because of her voice, but also because she was fun to work with.
I didn’t know her as a mother, but I can imagine that she was amazing. She was tremendously compassionate and caring.
Since it happened, I’ve heard from many of her friends in Portland or her old friends that she never lost touch with. It is clear that over the years, she never lost those wonderful elements of her personality that we in Seattle got to know and love.
The earth will be less for her not being here.