Comments on: LuRay Hodder Kuca: Rest In Peace – 1968-2007 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/ Sarcasm and vitriol wrapped in a twee bow. Mon, 05 Jul 2010 09:08:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Joe V http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-622 Joe V Sat, 22 Dec 2007 04:52:21 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-622 I am dumbstruck. I just found out. I was literaly trimming my tree - a song came on the reminded me of Luray (from about 20 years ago) and I searched her name and in 3 mintues I learned what I had never wanted to know. I knew Meg(hello) and Luray and Liz in HS. I always tended the fondest memories of our times together....and although this is too much for me to understand or accept right this sec - I want to send out Love and understanding and thanks to everyone that knew her - in hopes that they can recall the loving, unique and positive person she was....she was a shinning brightspot in my young life - and I for one will alwas remeber her this way....everytime I hear george winstons Thanksgiving. Namaste. Joe V I am dumbstruck.

I just found out.

I was literaly trimming my tree – a song came on the reminded me of Luray (from about 20 years ago) and I searched her name and in 3 mintues I learned what I had never wanted to know.

I knew Meg(hello) and Luray and Liz in HS.

I always tended the fondest memories of our times together….and although this is too much for me to understand or accept right this sec – I want to send out Love and understanding and thanks to everyone that knew her – in hopes that they can recall the loving, unique and positive person she was….she was a shinning brightspot in my young life – and I for one will alwas remeber her this way….everytime I hear george winstons Thanksgiving.

Namaste. Joe V

]]> By: kevin http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-591 kevin Fri, 09 Nov 2007 17:52:04 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-591 I removed the comment as Meg requested I removed the comment as Meg requested

]]> By: Meg http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-568 Meg Tue, 06 Nov 2007 05:40:18 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-568 I don't know how or if my comments from 9/16 can be removed from this blog but if they can I would like for them to be removed. I regret if I have contributed to any additional pain for the members of the Kuca or Moran families. I did not realize when I made the statement above that it would be published and so easily found by others. It was reckless of me to make such a public and unsubstantiated statement. Regardless of my personal beliefs about this horrible situation, it was never my intention to contribute to the difficulty. I sincerely apologize. Thanks. I don’t know how or if my comments from 9/16 can be removed from this blog but if they can I would like for them to be removed. I regret if I have contributed to any additional pain for the members of the Kuca or Moran families. I did not realize when I made the statement above that it would be published and so easily found by others. It was reckless of me to make such a public and unsubstantiated statement. Regardless of my personal beliefs about this horrible situation, it was never my intention to contribute to the difficulty. I sincerely apologize. Thanks.

]]> By: SomeOneWhoKnows http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-401 SomeOneWhoKnows Tue, 09 Oct 2007 06:05:50 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-401 You idiots who think you have it all figured out. The legal info that you all claim to know is not even available to family at this time. And will not be released to anyone but immediate family. Shame on you for trying to be a big part in this. You idiots who think you have it all figured out. The legal info that you all claim to know is not even available to family at this time. And will not be released to anyone but immediate family. Shame on you for trying to be a big part in this.

]]> By: Wahoo http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-396 Wahoo Sat, 06 Oct 2007 02:09:23 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-396 Thank you for sharing! Thank you for sharing!

]]> By: Family Friend http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-381 Family Friend Fri, 21 Sep 2007 06:46:13 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-381 Ray did not decide to discontinue treatment as it has been reported. Ray was making plans for her life and what she had left of it on Thursday night 4 hours before she died. She was not suicidal. And most importantly she never would have wanted this for Ruby. She was making plans for Ruby's future in case something happened to John. Ray did not decide to discontinue treatment as it has been reported. Ray was making plans for her life and what she had left of it on Thursday night 4 hours before she died. She was not suicidal. And most importantly she never would have wanted this for Ruby. She was making plans for Ruby’s future in case something happened to John.

]]> By: Family friend http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-380 Family friend Fri, 21 Sep 2007 06:21:04 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-380 Ray did not decide to end further treatment. This is untrue. She was not suicidal and was making plans for her family. Ray did not decide to end further treatment. This is untrue. She was not suicidal and was making plans for her family.

]]> By: Family friend http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-379 Family friend Fri, 21 Sep 2007 06:17:19 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-379 Ray did not deny treatment. In fact she had a dr's appt the next week. There are many facts that point to Ray not having anything to do with this. Ray did not deny treatment. In fact she had a dr’s appt the next week. There are many facts that point to Ray not having anything to do with this.

]]> By: Ray's friend http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-378 Ray's friend Fri, 21 Sep 2007 06:13:54 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-378 Ray did not choose to not have further treatment. That was untrue. I was with her that night and she was going to the dr. the following week to see what she could do. She had not decided that she didn't want treatment. Ray did not choose to not have further treatment. That was untrue. I was with her that night and she was going to the dr. the following week to see what she could do. She had not decided that she didn’t want treatment.

]]> By: Friend http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/comment-page-1/#comment-375 Friend Tue, 18 Sep 2007 07:58:31 +0000 http://blog.kevingoldsmith.com/2007/09/07/ray-hodder-rest-in-peace-1968-2007/#comment-375 R.I.P. John, Luray, and Ruby. I have really thought about this and it keeps running through my mind that if Luray chose not to further treatments, then maybe she was aware of what was going on. There are sides to people that we never know about. We don't know what went on behind their doors. R.I.P. John, Luray, and Ruby.

I have really thought about this and it keeps running through my mind that if Luray chose not to further treatments, then maybe she was aware of what was going on. There are sides to people that we never know about. We don’t know what went on behind their doors.

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